Monday, January 17, 2022

Sad, Mad, and Pissed Off... for a change

What was supposed to be a calm, easy week has turned into something quite the opposite. 

On the personal side, we lost our very dear Uncle Mike. He wasn't really my uncle, but he and Aunty Bonny were always Uncle Mike and Aunty Bonny to our boys. Together, they were a force of nature in the very best sense of the phrase. They basically adopted Ziggy and me when I didn't know I actually had family in Minnesota. They shared the highs, the lows, and all the stuff in the middle. They moved to Virginia back in 2017 to be closer to their daughter as they navigated their 80s, and in April of 2018, we lost Aunty Bonny. Uncle Mike found his foot, drove Uber for a while, and even found a lady friend. Life was looking good for him...and then stuff started. One thing after another. On Wednesday, the 13th, he went to join Aunty Bonny for breakfast. Not a great surprise, but no departure is ever really expected. Getting him back to Minnesota, however, has been a bit of a challenge. Weather, you know. So this Wednesday there will be a small funeral that will be zoomed. I will be there, and then the immediate family will come back to my house for the traditional meal of consolation before everyone flies to various homes to sit shiva. Aunty Bonny would expect no less, even in a pandemic. She trained me well. And I can hear Uncle Mike laughing as I write this. 

In the middle of feeling sad, I stopped long enough to get really, really angry. The hostage taking during shabbat morning services at Congregation Beth Israel. Yes, it was horrifying and terrifying, but my anger came from some of the responses...or lack of them. 

As soon as I heard, I logged into The New York Times. Nothing. I turned on CNN; they were covering the story live. That was all disappointing, but that wasn't what made me mad. Save that for that august news service, The Beeb. 

The BBC headline said: 
This is a great case of semantics matter. What the FBI Special Agent Matthew DeSarno said after the hostages were safe was:
He was singularly focused on one issue, and it was not specifically related to the Jewish community.

Yeah, I understand some people were unhappy with Special Agent DeSanto, but reports support the idea that he had an outcome in mind and the synagogue was an opportunity. Granted the guy was also homeless and rather unstable in his rants and raves, lending credence to the idea that he was just plain off his rocker. The BBC, however, published a headline that made the selection of the location a benign point in the standoff. I'm not buying that.

According to one of the zoom viewers, Stacey Silverman, he was not exactly benign about Jews.

He was foul-mouthed. He was swearing. He was saying antisemitic tropes. He was talking about Israel, Palestine, Islam, and that he had a gun. He implied he had a bomb in his backpack, and that he could, you know, let it loose at any minute. It was horrifying.

She was theoretically in the room. I kinda guess she knew what was going on. 

See, this wasn't an isolated incident.

Here's a list of synagogue shootings taken from Wikipedia. 

1960 Congregation Beth Israel (Gadsden, Alabama). Gunman injured two worshippers after fire-bombing synagogue.
1986 Neve Shalom Synagogue. During Shabbat services gunmen killed 22 worshippers and wounded 6.[2] (Istanbul, Turkey()

The highlight is my contribution; those are attacks in the last 5 years. 

Open the search parameters to Jewish institutions, you get a very different picture:

This is the whole list that Wikipedia publishes for Attacks on Jewish institutions in the United States. I left the citations and links in just in case you want to see some of these for yourself.

We, the Jews of the United States, are targets. We know this. We may comprise less than 2% of the US population, yet 54.9% of religious bias crimes are targeting Jews, according to the American Jewish Committee report issued in August, 2021. That a rather disproportionate number, dontcha think? But given the fact almost every Jew, observant or not, is concerned about these attacks harkens back to early Nazi Germany and that ol' saying, It could never happen here. 

It happened there and it can happen here just as easily. In fact, it already has. 

This morning, like damn near every morning except shabbat, I'm in a synagogue at morning minyan. I've been doing this for a long time. I like morning minyan; it frames my day. But let me reassure you, we have spotters who watch the parking lot for unknown vehicles and visitors. Our security has been upgraded, and we are vigilant. This is the new reality. 

Yes, you can still see in our windows. You can see us praying. You can see us reading Torah. It's what we do. Join us if you'd like...just wear an N95 mask, please. But when it's cold, there is coffee. 

morning minyan is the best place to see dawn.

We are not afraid. We are not hiding. We will welcome those who want to come to pray, for a yahrzeit, or for the chuckles we seem to have every day. 

Jews came to this country to escape persecution and pogroms. We are not going to stand around pretending Colleyville didn't have anything to do with a synagogue. We're not gonna let you pretend either. 

The Wifely Person's Tip o'the Week
If someone offers you a class in shooter-preparedness,
take it. 
The life you save may not just be your own.   

3 comments:

  1. You speak the truth. Jews are targets and we need Israel.

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  2. This is sobering list Susan. I haven't seen it like this before. Thanks for being diligent.

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  3. May you be safe each and everyday from this awful torrent of hate and anti-Semitism.

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